In the Parable of the Mustard Seed from the Gospel of Matthew (13:24–43), the smallest seed becomes the largest plant. Words work the same way—positively and negatively. Words of support, affirmation, kindness, and appreciation encourage us on our journeys through relationships, and positive words of love are also examples of living the Gospel.
How often do we deliberately choose to share positive words? Do we really take the time to think? In heated moments of conflict and frustration, do we readily use words of reaction, anger, criticism, judgment, or disappointment, or do we choose words of love? Love doesn’t mean agreeing with wrongdoing. Words of love come not from dissention but from our honoring the individual person as far greater than any of their actions.
While simple words of encouragement like “thank you” or “nice work” can come naturally when everything is fine, the real test comes when we are rattled by something someone else says or does. Are we more critical or caring? Accusing or affirming? Insulting or inspiring? Stifling or supportive? Upsetting or uplifting?
What are your personal tendencies? Could there be any room for improving your vocabulary through more patient choices? Should you ever take a breath and actually take time to think, and even pray, before speaking?
Romans 8:26–27 adds that even when we do not have the right words, the Spirit intercedes. Let us allow the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts, minds, and mouths with words of love, respect, and encouragement as we strive to live the Gospel message of our Lord Jesus Christ. May we pray for the grace to always respond with patience and love so that our words take lasting root in others and grow fruitful far beyond the moment.
