We live in a fast-paced world that pulls us in many directions and relentlessly demands more of our attention, energy, and productivity. Additionally, in my own life, I feel like so much of what I do falls under constant scrutiny, making me also feel the need to “prove” my value to others. The resulting stress often causes me to lack patience and gentleness when talking to others.
This Sunday’s second reading offers a fitting and friendly reminder to slow down and approach others with the patience, gentleness, and humility that may be absent. I recognize that I need reminders like this to combat the pressure to work harder and be better, which only leads to a defensive and hostile mindset.
Of patience, humility, and gentleness, I view humility as the most fruitful; whenever I approach someone with gentle humility, I almost immediately see a positive change in them. I find that an easy way to show humility is to take accountability and apologize for something (even if you know you were not at fault). As the reading continues, it becomes clear that this approach is essential to “preserve the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace.”
In addition, this week’s Gospel recounts the multiplication of loaves and fish, whereby God provided an abundance for the people gathered with Jesus. By increasing humility, gentleness, and patience, God’s love is also shared more abundantly, making the world a better and less hostile place.
